The art, adventures, wit (or lack thereof), verse, ramblings, lyrics, stories, rants & raves of Christopher R. Bakunas
Thursday, July 29, 2021
What Defines Cowardice?
Tuesday, July 27, 2021
Well, Thats An Interesting Tidbit...
Sunday, July 25, 2021
Never Underestimate The Power Of Luck
The topic of failure came up this afternoon, or more specifically, the topic of why most people fail came up.
As is common among most groups of people who entertain this particular topic for a long enough conversation, eventually several opinions were shared as to "why" people fail.
Some of the "whys" that were mentioned this afternoon were; being unprepared, listening to people who doubt your abilities, not having a plan, being afraid, overthinking, diluting your efforts, not being realistic about what you can and cannot control, half-measures, being unwilling to make sacrifices, letting your ego run the show, not asking for help when needed, and losing focus.
Which are all true enough, but also a bit clichéd.
For all the truth in those listed reasons, there is also another factor that is rarely mentioned as a reason why people fail, but one which I frequently bring up in conversations of this nature.
And that factor is luck.
Luck is huge.
Mentioning that I believed luck was a major factor in failure got me both sidelong glances and nods of agreement.
There were comments along the lines of "You have to create your own luck" or "You have to learn to manage the circumstances that come your way" That completely missed what I mean by luck.
I just deleted a couple of paragraphs that illustrated how much luck factors into success and failure, as the words seemed not only insufficient, but a bit heavy-handed (stuff like "what about losing your sight halfway into your endeavors, or being hit by a car?")
I'll have to let my opinion stand at "Luck is huge."
Saturday, July 24, 2021
Zephyr, Formerly Known As Samantha
Her parents had named her Samantha but she preferred Zephyr She introduced herself as such to new acquaintances But everyone eventually addressed her as Zep
She hated wearing pants or shorts, preferring sundresses Or loose-fitting, oversized T-shirts draped over flowing skirts
And she loved to swear - Not under-her-breath mildly like an exasperated fast-food restaurant manager
But loudly, every-third-word a vulgar epithet Like a frustrated building contractor
Each week for at least one entire day, she went barefoot She said it was necessary to keep her feet in tune with the Universe
Thursday, July 22, 2021
Kaitlin Spruces Up The Place
Tuesday, July 20, 2021
Monday, July 19, 2021
The Conditions That Lead To The Fall
Walking around as if he was still king Of a country now completely deserted And desecrated
Which will happen after a few years of Ruthless tyranny Now he sits on a throne made of sillystring
Never learned to appreciate the lesser things Staring out at a boulder strewn field That offers no sustenance Only frustration Going to have to learn to enjoy Lesser things
Transfer your fears to the rear at the next stop Never pause to refresh, pause to actualize Continue to modernize Never pause to refresh, pause to actualize Continue to modernize
Monarchs in exile swimming in mineral spirits While the peasantry build Newspaper sailboats Set ablaze in front of the dockside Fireworks factories Dropping anchors that weigh Ten thousand tons
It all makes sense if you understand The allusions All makes sense if you understand And strip yourself of Delusion
Sunday, July 18, 2021
Disheartened & Disappointed By A Machine
Ever have your computer unexpectedly shut down completely, and then require you to restart from zero in order to get it back up?
By zero I mean resetting everything - as if this was the first day you took the computer out of the box and set it up.
I have, just this morning, and it sucks. Have to re-install everything and hope I can locate files that seemingly no longer exist.
Oy vey iz mir.
Friday, July 16, 2021
Thursday, July 15, 2021
Triumph Of Hygiene & Science
The Global Pandemic caused by CoVid-19 appears to be ebbing, at least in the Western hemisphere.
This is due to a number of factors, and by far the two most prominent are hygiene and science.
Hygiene, proper hygiene, and by that I mean cleaning yourself and surfaces you come in contact with thoroughly in order to prevent the possible spread of CoVid-19 (to you from someone who had been infected, or from infected you to someone who had not) is now a habit for millions upon millions of people across the globe.
Lets keep it that way - no need to fall back into slovenly habits simply because if feels safe to be able to do so.
Because it isn't safe, it just feels that way.
Science of course stepped up in a big way, specifically medical science.
Computers, those incredible storehouses of information and calculating prowess, were used by thousands if not millions of medical researchers - virologists, immunologists, infectious disease experts, Nurses, Doctors, etc., to share their research, their progress, their experiences in the fight against this disease - cross country, cross cultural, cross everything cooperation on a scale never even glimpsed in the history of the world, and it worked rapidly (relatively) to develop not only the vaccines that are now being used to save millions, but better treatments for those unfortunates who have contracted CoVid-19.
Let's keep that level of cooperation up, too. It's the true path to world peace.
Wednesday, July 14, 2021
The Absent Minded Nature Of Transitional Regret
In an attempt to make sense of all that had transpired she sat down with a notebook and wrote out everything she could remember about the affair, from the first day of their acquaintance until the morning she woke up alone.
It didn't work.
Despite rewriting the two and a half pages that covered what she considered the "crucial episode" three different times, she still could not explain, to herself nor any other person, what happened.
Story of her life, she mused internally - she meets people she considers perfect, and days or weeks or even months later they reveal themselves to be the exact opposite.
All the while she herself was, of course, without fault.
Monday, July 12, 2021
The 1,345,776th Path To Spiritual Enlightenment
Saturday, July 10, 2021
Turning Worms & Contradictions In Terms
Thought he was born to be a rebel
Never going to compromise
Now he's wearing suits
Must have over three hundred ties
Unironically
Thought of nothing but living in the moment
Not the slightest concern for tomorrow
Now carefully measures every word
Does everything he can to avoid eating crow
Thursday, July 8, 2021
You May Find Yourself At The Wrong End Of The Rainbow...
Well, can't say I have much in the way of encouragement to relate to you...sometimes that's just your lot in life and all you can do is adjust your worldview from one of frustration to one of determination and figure a way to move on from there.
Or not - ball is in your court, regardless of the fact that you never asked for the ball - or even wanted to be on the court for that matter.